More often than less, I've been feeling like Ashley lately.
Although I know I have something to stay, still:
So I’m writing this post—not as a declaration that I’m going to blog every day (I probably won’t), or that I have a new master plan (I don’t). I’m writing it as a gentle reentry. A reminder to myself that taking up space, even imperfectly, is still worth doing.
And if you’re reading this and nodding along, just know: you’re not alone. You don’t have to write every day. You don’t have to have the hottest take. You don’t have to prove anything. You just have to be real. That’s enough.
I’m starting here. And if you’re trying to find your way back to something too, I hope you’ll start with me.
I’ve had very little time to dedicate to my blog and to reading my beloved RSS feeds, and I’ve spent all my free time playing video games.
This past weekend, however, Noemi decided to commit to finding a second-hand bike. We have many cycling paths that go from Marina del Rey north to Santa Monica and south much farther, all the way to Redondo Beach.
On Sunday, we found one for around $80, and while the frame was in excellent condition, the bike needed a major tune-up.
The man who sold it to us is Ukrainian and has lived in the area for 45 years. He suggested we go to a Community Bike Center for help. Not knowing exactly what that was, I asked him a few questions, and he pointed me to this fantastic place: Bikerowave.
Bikerowave is a volunteer-run, DIY bike shop collective located in Mar Vista, serving L.A.’s cycling community. They provide space, tools, and equipment to effectively teach people how to build, repair, and maintain their bicycles. They are a not-for-profit, all-volunteer, member-run organization. Their goal is to empower cyclists with the basic knowledge to maintain their ride and help them connect more easily with the cycling community.
On Monday evening, we went there, and with Boe’s help, I learned a lot about how a bike is built, where to make adjustments, and how to fix it myself without needing a shop next time.
I’m not sure if there’s anything like this in Italy, but in the two hours we spent there, we understood—if it wasn’t already clear enough—how possible it is to bring objects back to life that others consider outdated. And through the power of community, great things can be built.
To be a blogger, you have to be okay with writing into the void. Some posts will resonate with people. Some posts will get comments. Most won’t.
Sometimes I’ll write a post and I’ll think to myself, “This is pretty good! This is the blog post that people are gonna talk about and link to. I’ve really captured something unique in this post.”
And then crickets. No one cares. 🦗
That’s okay. The act of writing itself helps us think, helps us learn, helps us discover how we feel about a topic. It’s creative and has value even if no one is reading. It’s a snapshot in time to look back on later.
And then the post is out there on the internet, making the web a little better. And maybe one day someone will pick it up and see it, at just the right time, and it will matter to them.
When I opened my first blog in 2007, I did it to share a trip I had taken to Canada. Back then, almost no one was doing travel blogging. Later, I started following a trend, writing on the blog to make myself known, initiate conversations with brands, and write about products and experiences. For many months, I forgot what writing truly meant to me.
Reworking long-dormant thoughts that need to escape my mind and take shape through written text is my way of deciphering the world and the things that fascinate me. It’s a means of leaving an indelible mark on my inner self, even before hoping it might interest someone out there.
And even if it doesn’t, that’s okay too. I’ve shared something about myself with the world, and being able to do so is already an achievement.
Nintendo has officially announced the Nintendo Switch 2, slated for release on June 5, 2025, with a suggested retail price of $449.99 in the United States.
Key Features and Specifications:
Display: The Switch 2 boasts a larger 7.9-inch LCD screen with a 1080p resolution, supporting up to 120 frames per second (fps) and High Dynamic Range (HDR).
Docked Mode: When connected to a TV via the redesigned dock, the console supports up to 4K resolution at 60fps.
GameChat: A new communication feature accessible via the C button on the right Joy-Con 2 allows for voice and video chat with friends during gameplay. The built-in microphone is designed to filter out ambient noise for clear communication.
I've never been a big Nintendo fan, though I have immense respect for what the company has done—and continues to do—to change the world of video games. However, if this is the premise, it still holds true that Nintendo struggles to get two successful consoles in a row.
Then there’s the online functionality, which is still lagging far behind current market standards, only reinforcing the idea that Nintendo still isn’t comfortable managing a proper multiplayer experience on its consoles. Not all the old games will work and for some of them you need to pay a little extra to get a graphics upgrade...
The decision to use the Welcome Tour tech demo to introduce the new console—and to make it a paid experience—feels like another misstep, especially when compared to how well Sony handled Astro Bot’s launch with the PlayStation 5.
Finally, the preorder system based on unfair rules (You can purchase a Switch 2 directly from Nintendo, but only if you have at least 50 hours of gameplay on the original console) makes me think I’ll soon end up buying a gaming PC instead of following these absurd access conditions.
So true Brandon, so true. Now video games are my thing.
I remember when surfing the web or escaping into cyberspace was a break from real life. It was a place where I could go to relax and escape the worries of my regular life. Now, it seems every time I log on, I find something new to stress about, something else to be pissed off about, and I just don’t know how much more of this I can take. I guess things have come full circle, now I go offline to escape real life and relax, as the internet has truly become the place where I hate to be.
But where do those two think they’re going? Their freedom is only in their heads. It can’t exist outside that place, outside someone else’s control. Ending the second season like that floored me.
How do you wait another year?
Severance Season 2 has been bittersweet, slow, incomprehensible for long stretches. I’d call it a transitional season, like the last one of The Bear. Waiting for better times.
I hate being late. I hate when people are late. I find it a profound form of disrespect.
I get really annoyed when I’m standing at the doorstep, ready to leave, and my wife, for whatever reason, delays our departure. Or when we’re given a specific meeting time and discover that the person we’re waiting for—even just for a cocktail and dinner—is half an hour late and only bothers to let us know a few minutes before the agreed time.
This past weekend, both things happened. We were the last to arrive at a birthday party on Saturday, and yesterday some friends of ours were 30 minutes late.
I wondered where all this irritation came from, especially since, on both occasions, no one seemed to pay much attention to us or make a big deal out of it.
The best answer I came up with is that it’s naturally a cultural thing. Milan and its working life are chaotic, fast-paced, always with every second accounted for. Los Angeles, if anything, is the complete opposite. Although the two cities share traffic, life here is much more relaxed—it’s almost normal to have some accumulated delay in appointments or social gatherings.
Now that I think about it, every time we’ve gone out—unless it was for a show where we had to be there at a specific time—we’ve always been the first to arrive with friends and acquaintances, and more often than not, they’ve been the ones running late.
I probably need to work on myself a bit more and stop getting annoyed about this, since it doesn’t seem like such a big deal to others.
📺 I’m missing the last episode to finish the second season of Severance. After 9 episodes, I can’t really say what actually happened in these past few weeks. I feel like, beyond delving into the personal stories of a few characters, little substance has been added to the fabulous first season.
We’ll wait until March 20, but I’m not holding high expectations. It’s a shame, I really like the show itself, but I was hoping for something a bit spicier.
🪶 I lingered perhaps a bit too long on this post by VonGiorno. Since I started writing in English a few months ago, I’ve decided not to stop. I’m not sure it’s the same motivations driving me to do it—I don’t want to be read more for the sake of numbers. I want to be read more to weave new, interesting connections. To discover perspectives that are new and different from mine and discuss them if necessary. (P.S. my email is always open).
🗣️ My absence from social media, as I’ve already mentioned, continues. I’ve completely stopped posting anything about my private life or updates of any kind. I still use X for work, and for a few weeks now, with decent success, I’ve been limiting myself to talking only about gaming noticing a huge spike in conversations and followers (not that I mind about the latter). I’ve probably always used these platforms the wrong way.
🎶 This week I bought tickets for two very different concerts. The first is the Death Stranding in Concert tour. They’ll perform the soundtracks from both the first chapter and the second one, set to release in June this year. A great incentive for me to finally finish Master Kojima’s first work, which I’ve left simmering for far too long. The second concert is Volbeat in November. I’m excited because Los Angeles is the perfect place for these kinds of experiences.
From today on the blog has a new small feature, whenever you'll see a ✱ on the title, you'll know that this is an external link pointing to a landing page which is not living on this website, so click it and read through the whole thing.
I was considering to implement this little change from the moment I was planning to use my blog more and more to post small bites of content that I won't publish anywhere else but here.
I wanted to start with this one post from Joan, since it's on point with what I just said:
Personal websites matter - now, more than ever - because we can see, clearly, with our own eyes, what happens when a handful of companies control and own the medium and the message. It gets silenced, suppressed, and subtly reshaped without us. We get caught up in echo chambers, divided from each other, and force-fed content at the lowest common denominator.
Update: For my RSS people (and here too!) at the end of the post a 🔗 will appear with the permalink of my landing page!
